I bet all of us at some point, go through this phase where we feel that life is unfair!
I go through this all the time. Ever since I got married, had children and even changed jobs/careers, all to meet the needs of other people, I've felt that life is so unfair. I still feel that!
I don't know how you guys made it through, but I am still going on because of my faith and my religion. I was brought up to be good, to be fair and to respect each other. I do not judge but I think I understand people very well.
I believe this ability to understand people and not being judgmental, is a gift from God. After staying with my mother-in-law for 9 years, I have also learnt to be extremely tolerant and humble! I have learnt that I am not God to control every part of my life, especially that of my children's. They have their own minds, their own lives with their own uniqueness. And from there, I learnt to respect their own selves and just guide and influence them positively. That's even harder, knowing that most of their day time is influenced by my in-laws (their grandparents)!
Letting go is letting God...
